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The Hard Questions: 100 Essential Questions to Ask Before You Say "I Do"
Title | The Hard Questions: 100 Essential Questions to Ask Before You Say "I Do" |
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Date | 2025-07-09 18:42:03 |
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Desciption
The classic New York Times bestseller"This book of hard questions and exercises for couples is innovative and exciting." —Andrew Weil, M.D.In this simple yet profound relationship tool, Susan Piver shows couples at any stage of their relationships — be it newly-engaged or married-for-decades — how they can forge and strengthen lasting, intimate bonds. Focusing on key areas such as home, money, work, sex, community, and family, The Hard Questions contains one hundred thought-provoking questions that challenge and inspire couples to gain a deeper understanding of each other.Together with your partner, you'll discuss matters such • What will our home look like? • What are our professional goals? • Are each of us happy with the other's approach to health? • What will we do if one of us is seriously attracted to someone else? • Will we try to have children, and if so, when?With its elegant design, The Hard Questions is the perfect gift for wedding showers and anniversaries, or for anyone considering marriage.
Review
So we probably read this about 4 years too late. This book is clearly for a couple in the very beginning stages of relationshiphood. We pretty much had asked each other about 95% of the questions already in there over the course of our relationship before even talking about marriage, so there really wasn't much for us to discuss. I guess if you haven't asked each other about money, sex, values, the future, work, kids and religion before you even got engaged - then you might want to ask yourselves why you would even consider marrying that person in the first place. And if a book is prompting you to ask more than half of those questions for the first time, then the lack of communication would make me worry that you and your soon-to-be will never communicate properly. I think this book, if anything, while not quite suited for us - just made us realize that we're in a good place to start a marriage together.